重讀W的《時裝時刻》，提到"having it all"的女人。"Having it all"，我想起了自己最愛的女演員Jennifer Saunders。家庭美滿，丈夫是另一位我喜愛的英國comedian，Adrian Edmondson。育有三名女兒，可謂家庭事業兩得意。她本身聰明美麗，靠腦搵飯食。從最初的"French & Saunders"到近期的"The Life & Times of Vivienne Vyle"和"Jam & Jerusalem"也是自己編劇、演出。
在另一套自編的電視劇"Ab Fab"裡，更將現代的女性觀發揮的淋漓盡至。不是標榜女權至上，而是，從基本上，女性也可以自給自足。戲中，她離過兩次婚，有一個女兒，卻還可以天天尋歌作樂。This is my life!兒女不再是單親媽媽的burden。她可以繼續扮靚，每天"mosey down Bond Street, a little sniff around Gucci, sidle up to Ralph Lauren, pass through Browns and on to Quags for a light lunch"(Patsy)。
"I don't want more choice, i just want nicer things!"(Eddy)
OK，現代女性也有失意的時後。從事PR界的女角(Eddy)在一次頒獎禮中悄悄跟好友說，"It's just... you know... I WANT one. I don't just want one, darling, I NEED one. My career is on a toboggan run of failure at the moment... I just need one. It's the only thing that seems to mean ANYthing these days... I need one now before the menopause drags me into her gaping jaws. Before my creative hormonal oil-well dribbles to a halt. Before my bottom becomes just a patch-work quilt of monkey glands, darling."
要怎樣去認識自己，在過程中發現自己的弱點，要如何面對，改正。從來，Jennifer Saunders都不是叫我們去羨慕別人的好。每個人，都可以比別人更有趣，只有你愛自己。
(上圖:是Jennifer Saunders在"The Life & Times of Vivienne Vyle"的造型。)
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